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How to find a hiking group

To find a hiking group, check local hiking or walking clubs, outdoor shops, community centres and event listings, then message the walk leader before your first hike to ask about distance, pace and terrain. Choose a walk graded below your ability for the first outing. Good leaders welcome questions and tell you honestly if a hike is too hard.

Why group hikes work for meeting people

Walking side by side is easy to talk during, and it comes with built-in pauses at viewpoints and lunch stops. You do not need to keep up constant conversation, and the route gives you something to talk about. Many groups also meet regularly, which is the repetition friendship needs. If you already walk alone, see our guides to solo hiking tips and solo hiking safety; a group can be a complement, not a replacement.

Where to look

SourceWhat you findNotes
Local hiking or walking clubRegular scheduled walks, often gradedCheck the club's own site for membership and guest rules
Outdoor or sports shopNoticeboards, shop-run eventsAsk staff: "Do you know of a beginner-friendly walking group?"
Community centre or libraryWalking groups for all agesOften low-cost or free
University, workplace or faith groupsInformal outingsAsk at an office, society or community
Conservation or volunteer groupsTrail work and guided walksSee also volunteering as a way in
Online event listings and social groupsLocal meet-upsCheck the most recent events and group size
National or regional walking organisationsDirectories of local groupsUse their official pages

Always confirm the date, meeting point, cost and any membership rules on the organiser's own page. Details change.

Questions to ask before you join

Ability grading differs between groups, so do not assume a label means what you expect. Ask the leader:

QuestionWhy it matters
How far, and how long will it take?Check against your longest recent walk
How much climbing?Hills change effort more than distance
What is the pace, including breaks?Some groups walk briskly; others stroll
What is the terrain like?Paths, rocks, mud, scrambling
How many people usually come?Smaller groups are easier to talk in
Is there a plan if someone is slower?Good groups wait or have a sweeper at the back
What should I bring?Footwear, water, food, layers, navigation
What happens if the weather turns?Should show the leader has a plan
Are beginners and solo walkers welcome?You want a clear yes
Can I join a trial walk before becoming a member?Avoid paying before trying

Check any safety information the organiser publishes, and see solo hiking safety for general habits such as telling someone your plan and checking the forecast.

Messaging the leader (scripts)

First message: "Hi, I saw your walk on [date]. I'm new to the group and walk about [distance] comfortably, mostly on [paths/hills]. Would this one suit me? I'd like to join if so."

Asking about pace: "Roughly what pace do you keep? I'm happy at a steady walk with stops, but not very fast."

Asking about a back-up: "If I need to slow down, is there a sweeper or a shorter option?"

Replying to an invitation: "Thanks! I'll be there. Is there anything I should know about parking or meeting at the start?"

If it is too hard: "Thanks for being honest. I'll try a shorter one first and join you for a harder route later."

Good leaders reply with detail and do not mind being asked.

Pick your first walk

If your usual walking is...Try a first hike that is...
Occasional, flatShort, flat to gently rolling, with a cafe stop
Regular, a few hoursModerate, some hills, in the middle of your range
ExperiencedThe group's standard route, but ask about pace

Choosing easier than you need keeps your energy for chatting and gives a good first impression. You can always step up.

At the start

Conversation while walking

Walking lets you chat without eye contact, so it is a good setting for shy people. Easy openers:

If you run out of things to say, comment on the view, the weather or the path. For more, see how to keep a conversation going and how run clubs handle the same issue in how to go to a run club alone.

Safety habits for group hikes

This is general information, not a replacement for training, medical or navigation advice.

After the hike

Follow up the same day or the next: "Great day, thanks for leading." If you got on with someone: "I'm planning to do [route] next Saturday. Want to join?" Then go to the next walk. Three walks with the same people changes things more than one with different ones. Clubs and groups that make friendship easy and the 8-week test for hobby groups help you decide whether to stay.

If you prefer fitness-class settings to trails, try how to go to a group fitness class alone.

Practising the solo part

Solo Era's movement category has a level 1 mission, "Get off one stop early and walk the rest of the way." It is a gentle way to practise getting outside on your own before you join a group. The app does not find hiking groups for you.

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Try a gentle outdoor mission

Solo Era is an iPhone app for practising things alone. Choose a movement or people mission, rate how nervous you feel before and after, and keep notes in your journal. It is not a meet-people app. Free to download. A subscription is required to start missions. Prices and any free trial are shown in the app and depend on the offer and eligibility.

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FAQ

Do I need to be fit to join a hiking group?

Not usually, but pick a walk graded for your level and ask the leader. Many groups run shorter, slower walks.

What if I'm the slowest?

Tell the leader beforehand. Good leaders plan for different paces, with regroup points and someone at the back.

Do I need special gear?

Often sturdy footwear, water, food and layers. Ask the leader what is required for that route and season.

Is it safe to hike with strangers?

Groups led by organised clubs add some safety, but check the organiser's information, meet in public places and tell someone your plans.

What if I don't like the first group?

Try another. Pace, size and atmosphere differ a lot between groups.

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Try it with Solo Era

Solo Era gives you one realistic mission a week, records how nervous you felt before and after, and keeps a photo journal of what you did. An iPhone app. A subscription is required to start missions; any free trial depends on the offer and eligibility shown in the app.

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